What could be the two most important feeling expressed by one person to another is care and love. In many situations the two comes together in perfect harmony. However, there are times when one precedes the other making the one inappropriate when one is ahead of the other. When someone cares it usually stay on just caring for the other person and in the case of loving the person beyond the typical romance the feeling gets too exhilarated to even remember to care.
Why do we hurt the most the one we love the most? It is because we forget to care, that simply because we love we also need to take away the pain, the hurting, the worry, and so much more, from the person we love. Sadly, instead of doing so we oftentimes even highlight what is already painful and lose giving care and taking away pain from the person we really do love the most.
How sweet it is if everyone who loves cares for the person even more.
Happy New Year to everyone! To my friends especially to Mark, who helped out to make it through the challenges of 2007, and for accompanying through the new year 2008, and also to Tina.
It was more than a challenge that I went through last year my friends. It was a test of will if I may call it that. A challenge, I would rather consider a mere dare that one has a choice to take or not. What I went through was a test of will, its a do or die situation. Left with no other choice but to move on I took the test to determine my endurance for life. With that sole option but with all my friends beside I was able to take the test and determined the extent of my will. It was a realization I never had before in my entire lifetime.
I loved and I thought that loving is giving up everything for love. I loved and I thought it was turning away from all that you believe in just to prove your love. I loved and firmly chained myself to it just to secure that love that I thought I could keep, but to my realization it was not what loving is. To love is to hope and to dream, as well. To love is to live ones life to the fullest as you would for someone you love. For what good would your life be to give out to someone that your life is preserved in a jar, preserved as it is but no life ahead of it. What would love be without that life outside of the jar, living and moving, and hoping and dreaming that there would be more ahead of today and tomorrow. For what is love today when there is no tomorrow.
A comment posted by Oliver, PLN deem necessary be posted upfront.
The Pinoy Love Notes owe Tina this space for her email sent after the posting of the note regarding the absence of any response from them, Tina and Oliver, on the issue that was initiated last year just before the Holidays. Likewise, we apologize for the unfounded comment regarding this and this posting, we hope, would suffice as reprieve for Tina as well as Oliver.
“Forgive me guys for the silence, it was my effort to hid some of the comments I read from this site weighing each which would be fair to me as well as fair to whoever made the suggestion. I did thought of that instant when I decided to have this out on the net in desperation of making contact with Oliver again. From the comments as well as suggestions from everyone who dearly followed up my concern I thank you and wish you all good love in the New Year, may you all be spared from such a situation that I am in right now.
I am hoping still that Oliver would be able to get any of this messages even if there is no concern nor at the least intention to send back a note to let me and everyone else know that he’s still alive. Love is not expecting anything in return. Just want to know that he’s alright wherever he may be.”
A portion of an email that Tina sent in response to a previous note on this site.
It is saddening that neither Oliver nor Tina (an earlier story posts we had on this blog) was interested in corresponding to us if only to have the message sent to one or to the other even only for the Holiday that just passed us by. We can only hope that they were able to communicate with each other in some other way not through us not to waste what was already started. Some followers were asking how they are and we in Pinoy Love Notes can only shrug our shoulders in desperation.
At first we thought of a love affair coming out of the distance to probe that love knows no distance or should I say boundaries. But it seems correct and the effort to touch the hearts of the two lovers is a shot put to the moon. Or maybe not, there is still Valentine’s Day to speak of. Maybe there is a different magic that St. Valentine can offer to the two poor souls that can bridge the long distance to make their love flourish once again.
What about a hot spring venue to ease up the cold weather since there seem to be an extended cold breeze from the holidays towards the Valentines Day celebration. Saw one YouTube video of this hot spring, it’s so lovable I want to go there right now.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QElszM4Xy0s
Comment suggestion from Raymond
The Hearts Day is again just around the corner and all lovers, as well as the anticipating ones, are already preparing for this very special once a year event. What else could be new? Dinner again? Watch the movie again? Honeymoon(?) again, or a new place to do it? Should we be wearing red or what about something blue or yellow this time? How about breakfast in bed particularly “tapsilog” (beef jerky, fried garlic rice, and fried eggs) in bed? Better yet why not just take a day off the usual work schedule? Anyone who has a better suggestion?
http://reallyneedavacation.wordpress.com/2008/01/07/great-escape-for-the-valentines-day/
I recently got an email from my friend who’s in desperate need of a love advice. I’m sure with the help of wisdom and experience of the people in the net, she can get more perspectives to help her out sort her love life. So it just goes like this, in a nutshell: Dear Friend, I’m just two years short of a masters degree but couldn’t focus on it right now because my five year American fiance who’s in LA right now doesn’t know that I’m about to elope with my Irish platonic mate who I met two years ago. I am a Filipina in the middle of a America and Europe. I love my fiance Dan who’s just waiting for me to finish my masters degree but he’s ten years older than me and is not as interesting, adventurous, unstable and exciting as Jean Claude who sent an engagement ring to replace the ring I got from Dan which I am wearing now. I know I just miss my fiance so much and have been frustrated with the long distance relationship that I have been accommodating Jean Claude’s exciting advances to sweep me off my feet…I don’t know if all love triangles end up like King Arthur’s but i am really so confused! What is the first thing to do??? Sniff! Desperately, Jacky
According to a comment to the topic question, “Would you rather make love or would you rather fuck?”, Steve replied that it depends on the mood and what really matters is that both people are on the same page and want the same experience. Steve has another thought on this topic but it is more specific to the body mass that makes fucking better or worse. He has this info that he got regarding fat people having more orgasm than thin ones. And so we now ask this question to you; does body mass affect orgasm? Or in his own words, does fat people have more orgasm?
Have you ever thought the duck embryo that the whole world despised due to the TV Reality Show FEAR FACTOR is only one of the many Pinoy secrets to male virility? Yes, it is definitely true and statistics have shown that it is very effective. The Balut is a cheaper alternative to VIAGRA with no side effects and no need for doctor’s prescription, but you would definitely get some doctor’s advice on family planning. Most Filipinos skipped that part, unfortunately. Watch this video of a guy, not about his virility though, (http://yummygalore.blogspot.com/2007/12/balut-dare.html) and a kid enjoying the Pinoy delicacy.
